When you can let go of the need for something, you are much closer to attaining it. Move beyond the need, and you move into the reality of whatever you desire.
Choose instead to see yourself as already living the reality of whatever you wish to have in your life. Then, choose to more fully implement and express that reality each day with your thoughts, feelings, words and actions.
Realize that whatever you desire is already yours in many important ways. Understand that you do not have to need it because you can already begin to live it whenever you choose.